Lulls
We are in a stage now where more snow has fallen in New England. Things tend to stop and get slower and everyone awaits the change of the season. It's hard to say no to children who want to bundle up in their snow suits and play outside, regardless of the temperature. As I watched the kids sled down the slide of our very own swing set, giggle and push their limits, I silently hoped that it be the type of memory that stays with them well into their adult years...and that new memories will be created.
We've been in a state of calm, mostly.
A realtor in Beit Shemesh identified a townhouse that would be available for rent in July. Peering at pictures of a similar rental in August, I was really taken by the differences of style. The townhouse row has secluded garden areas with space for a sukkah. I could almost picture our two red lounge chairs and grill. Access to fresh air and a window from where to watch the kids I contemplate and realize is a necessity, not a luxury. We're really hoping this rental works out since the current tenants we've been told are "messy" (not sure to what extent). An August 1st move we decide won't work given that it is so close to the 9 days, the school year and Jewish holidays. But we also don't want to miss July 4th, the fireworks and celebrations in Sharon, Massachusetts (might sound lame, but we are still proud!) -- and so we hope the owner can fix and update everything that needs to happen between July 1st and a flight, that we hope will be sometime around July 15.
This process reminds me of why I dislike rentals -- the space isn't your own to make changes. You're at the mercy of the owner. Although, with a house, you are at the mercy of a bank...but it doesn't feel that way as you make the space your own.
A friend in Beit Shemesh (who has been absolutely amazing) shared with me that one thing she did not realize, when she went from renting to owning was that she could buy a light fixture. I did notice the dangling light bulbs in the photographs. Another one of the aesthetic differences and manner of mindset. I assured the realtor that we are clean and clutter-free. I don't know if 11 years, wondering if a move abroad had anything to do with this, or just that we don't hoard.
We are enjoying this state of lull. Our house will go on the market sometime mid-March. The Jewish Agency interview after Purim. G-d willing our new arrival sometime around then (please flip and stay inside to the first week of April!). And then crunch time will resume.
Yes, I might miss the snow and the still mornings that follow (as much as I dislike 27 degree and below weather). These smiles make anything worth it.
We've been in a state of calm, mostly.
A realtor in Beit Shemesh identified a townhouse that would be available for rent in July. Peering at pictures of a similar rental in August, I was really taken by the differences of style. The townhouse row has secluded garden areas with space for a sukkah. I could almost picture our two red lounge chairs and grill. Access to fresh air and a window from where to watch the kids I contemplate and realize is a necessity, not a luxury. We're really hoping this rental works out since the current tenants we've been told are "messy" (not sure to what extent). An August 1st move we decide won't work given that it is so close to the 9 days, the school year and Jewish holidays. But we also don't want to miss July 4th, the fireworks and celebrations in Sharon, Massachusetts (might sound lame, but we are still proud!) -- and so we hope the owner can fix and update everything that needs to happen between July 1st and a flight, that we hope will be sometime around July 15.
This process reminds me of why I dislike rentals -- the space isn't your own to make changes. You're at the mercy of the owner. Although, with a house, you are at the mercy of a bank...but it doesn't feel that way as you make the space your own.
A friend in Beit Shemesh (who has been absolutely amazing) shared with me that one thing she did not realize, when she went from renting to owning was that she could buy a light fixture. I did notice the dangling light bulbs in the photographs. Another one of the aesthetic differences and manner of mindset. I assured the realtor that we are clean and clutter-free. I don't know if 11 years, wondering if a move abroad had anything to do with this, or just that we don't hoard.
We are enjoying this state of lull. Our house will go on the market sometime mid-March. The Jewish Agency interview after Purim. G-d willing our new arrival sometime around then (please flip and stay inside to the first week of April!). And then crunch time will resume.
Yes, I might miss the snow and the still mornings that follow (as much as I dislike 27 degree and below weather). These smiles make anything worth it.
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